I recently got a call from a strip club regular’s girlfriend yelling at me to stay away from her man. I get how this happens, but in case any of you haven’t thought about this, it’s his fault. Strippers (and all sex workers) aren’t responsible for determining if a client might have a partner. There’s literally no way for me to know if someone who walked into the club has a wife or girlfriend. I just dance for people, that’s my job. I’m a fantasy person and then I go home to my boyfriend. Some people who do other types of sex work may sleep with their clients or provide other services. When they are doing their jobs, it is again the fault of the client if they are cheating.
It’s their fault. They choose whether they come into my club. Plus she had access to the whole text history which was literally me just getting this guy’s money. It was him asking me to be his girlfriend and me saying “Come see me Saturday at the club!”, it should have been pretty clear that’s all I wanted from him.